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Wedding Guest Style Guide { Do's and Don't }

 

You’ve been invited to your boyfriend’s best friend’s wedding – cue the pressure. Even for those of us who are generally confident in social settings, it’s nerve-­‐wracking to meet so many of a SO’s friends, parents and extended family (…and even an ex or two?) all at once. Even if people are

amazingly nice, you’re still under a microscope.  

 

In bringing you out to such a group of highly important people, a guy is probably showing that he’s

more than halfway to making a serious commitment. Yes, he probably also wants some evaluation and feedback from people he trusts. But he’s got confidence in you, and he wants people to see the same good things about you that he sees.  

 

Knowing that, don’t sabotage yourself with a momentary fashion panic. Instead, take a look at these do’s and don’ts to create a first impression that’s exactly right for the situation.    

 

DO Get Dolled Up  

He may have told you that he thinks you’re most beautiful au natural-­‐ no makeup, simple jeans and t-­‐shirt, hair in a casual pony tail. But when it comes to wedding festivities, it’s picture, video, and

social media posting time!  So wear something special, wear cute shoes, and do your most with makeup.    

 

DON’T Wear White  

Only the bride wears white. Even off-­‐white, ivory, very pale pink, and other neutral pastels that at a distance appear white-­‐ish could be heading into the danger zone. A white dress with a faint color floral design is also a no-­‐no.    

 

Also…DON’T Wear Black  

Your LBD (little black dress) might be your safe go-­‐to in pretty much every other situation and event. But not this one! Follow traditional wedding etiquette, even if you aren’t a traditional person. This isn’t about you and your personal style-­‐expression; this is about respect for the bride and groom, their family, and tradition. Black, at a wedding, can come across as morbid, a bad omen, a rejection of the couple’s vows, and also directly going up against the bride-­‐ who is in white. This is your chance to wear color! Have fun with it!  

 

DO Read the Invitation  

The suggested attire is generally listed on the invitation. Read it, or at least ask your man what

exactly it says, and follow it—for every event you’re invited to. Black tie is very different from cocktail attire, different from semi-­‐formal, different from barefoot chic, and so on…    

 

DON’T be Too Sexy  

It’s ok to accentuate ONE of your best assets-­‐ like wearing a plunging neckline or rocking a high thigh slit, but don’t show off more than one sexy element. Don’t show too much cleavage, thigh, and other skin from cut-­‐outs (like stomach or your entire back). Save your super sexy dress for an evening out another time. For this occasion, dress with respect. Otherwise, you do risk scandalizing older members of the family as well as upstaging the bride-­‐-­‐ a definite no-­‐no!          

 

DO Over-­‐Dress When In Doubt, But Don’t Overshoot the Occasion  

If  the  dress  code  on  the  invitation  leaves  you  confused,  ask  your  man  what  he  is  wearing and  try  to  wear  the  feminine  equivalent,  or  even  slightly  more  dressy.  If  your  guy  is  a groomsman,  then  take  this  as  an  opportunity  to  turn  it  up  a  notch  yourself  too.  All  of  that being  said,  while  being  overdressed  is  always  preferred  to  underdressed,  you  also  don’t want  to  show  up  in  a  ball  gown  if  the  wedding  party  is  “sand  in  the  toes”  beach  chic.    

 

 

START WITH THESE STYLES  

 

Lace Overlay  

Lace, when done well, can be just sexy enough without being too sexy. This season’s styles are classically pretty without looking like, “I’ve turned my grandmother’s lace tablecloth into a gown.”    

 

A Skater Dress  

We love this silhouette because you can dance, move comfortably and confidently, and have a good time. In addition to giving you a space to shimmy, a skater style skirt dances around you and with you, adding flare on the dance floor.  

 

Figure Flattering  

A dress that grazes your skin without sticking to it is gracefully sexy but not get-­‐a-­‐

room sexy.    

 

 

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